Thank you for this writing. It is catharsis at work for me. I too am a little skeptical of people who say "I have no regrets", or "no regrets." I have had feelings for a certain person for many years and have never been able to bring the relationship to fruition. It's a mystery, and a great frustration to me as to why the feelings won't dissipate. Maybe, I will always regret never having the opportunity to just "be" with this person. I think that I will take your advice, and try hard to just loosen my grip on it. Thanks Again!