Love and relationships should be reciprocal. Most would not normally put up with a friendship where they did most of the giving, and the other person only took. This is even more important in a romantic pairing.

Even though many commenters are saying; it's not about privilege, it is. Women have a tendency to give too much, expect too little, and then expect the man to be ready to support their needs. Selfish love is no love at all. You have the privilege to love me as I need to loved, or leave me as you found me. You don't have a right to take what you need, but leave me with unfulfilled needs that you have no intentions of supplying.