I wholeheartedly agree with you on the damage that is caused by a caregiver who is not as nurturing as they should/could be. On the other hand, I recognize that we live in a world full of "injured people," and more often than not most of those injuries are generational and unfortunately passed down. This doesn't excuse the ones who are deliberately awful, but it does offer another perspective on why most of us aren't able to heal properly. Blessings.