I don't know that I would call myself a super lover, however, I do love hard. I always want the best for my partner, and I'm willing to do whatever it may take to help them achieve their needs. I was particularly interested in your take on growth in a relationship. I find this to be paramount. If there is not enough growth: spiritual, intellectual, and intimacy growth, then your union stagnates and dies, a slow painful death usually. Thanks for these pointers! We should all be subscribing to the idea of being as super a lover as possible!